I know many anxious, lonely, heterosexual Caucasian gentlemen worried about their place in this weird world who have managed not to drink the anti-feminist, neo-nationalist kool-aid. If you’re one of them, what stopped you going that way? Was there a moment of choice?
The real question to ask is how many nazis and MRAs grew up with racist & misogynist parents, or missing or oblivious parents in places where prevailing culture glorified racism & misogyny.