1. That's like basic film analysis
passive ppl are objects that are acted upon & active ppl are subjects.
2. "It's a fairy tale" Doesn't mean that it can't be problematic. Have you ever read Grimms Fairytales?
3. Why can't anyone talk about this without triggering you?
I already addressed that. If you're partner knows that you like stuff then that's fine. Telling them minimizes the risk. But them doing it knowing it's something you like is different than just deciding to stick their dick in your mouth. Right? Thread --->https://twitter.com/rationaldis/status/937394565480419330 …