Given more thought, this list has been typed up and then some girly handwriting has been put next to things. Is it possible that he typed it up and she agreed to the terms of this? Is this just a fantasy of one dude who doesn't actually have a sexual partner?
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I would say it's fake, because if it was an actual kink why would we know about it? If your girlfriend handed you a kink list you wouldn't take a picture and put it on the internet, but you would if you faked it.
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Could be a part of a sexual humiliation kink though. Sometimes dudes who are sub get off knowing that the whole world will know how much of a sub they are. Tbh, S&D has always fascinated me, but strictly as an outsider to it.
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I find it interesting mostly because it is such a strange thing. For someone to want something sexually that most people would find disgusting or awful. It's just weird and interesting.
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I guess. It's interesting but I certainly hope this is fake, because that kinda masochism is just depressing if it exists.
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Oh it does exist for sure. I have read about stories from subs though where the dom took it too far but it built up slowly and they didn't realise. So morally I think it's a mixed issue.
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Certainly an interesting species we have, huh?
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This is defienitely fake, no man would subject themselves to this unless their girlfriend was like the second incarnation of jesus. Not sure how this could be a kink of any kind though, sounds like hell.
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The 'princess' thing makes me think it could be a kink. People can be into stuff that's pretty odd. I just recently watched a doco where a guy's kink was being eaten alive and he met a guy with a fetish for eating people. So he got eaten and the other guy went to prison
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I think this list is abusive, but if it's real, it could be a dude who really enjoys it for some reason. It's a very morally weird area. The actions are immoral, but if someone really wants the action performed with/to them, does that change anything?
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Even if this isn't a kink or faked. There's men who control their partners with like this. The issue isn't womz or feminism. It's that there are abusive people who seek to dominate their partner (& not in a fun way) cause a lot of people have fucked up ideas about relationships.
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Hard to say. It seems to be some kind of kink and if it is consensual and if he genuinely enjoys this then I don't feel like it's my place to tell him he's wrong. Then again, is the submission a sign of something wrong that needs addressing? I dunno.
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I agree on the kink thing was just making the point even if this isn't Ian taking something out of context, it's not the feminismz that's the problem at play. On the submissiveness issue, consensual sex positive D&S would include a dom who is aware of their sub's well-being.
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Yeah like, is this something that is constantly enforced? Or was it made for effect? If it is strictly enforced, each and every thing on there I think it would cross a line into abuse. It's a bit weird to me morally since if this is the kind of relationship he truly wants
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which we can't tell from this one picture alone, then it is hard to say if it is right or wrong. If a person REALLY wants a relationship to be like this, then it's probably better they be with someone who is wiling to do that with them than make someone who isn't into it, do it
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It's frustrating cause on surface there are many kinks that would can be abusive if the dom is awful and inattentive to the needs of the sub. Like all sex positive stuff and relationships in general, it's about mutual respect, trust, and communication.
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Even then there's as you said the question of whether the dominance or submissiveness are traits born of other issues. If the submissive is submissive cause they have no self esteem or have internalised misogyny or homophobia for example, then indulging in D&S may be problematic.
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But from the accounts I've read, there are doms who helped improve the confidence of their subs within the context of a D&S relationship. I guess like most relationships so much of it is private and personal that it's near impossible to judge without talking to the parties.
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the guy she is writing to is DEFF a sub. this is 100% fetish talk. especially the "how high, princess?"
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Absolutely. It's such a conservative thing eh? OH NO! PEOPLE ENJOY SEX IN A WAY THAT MAKES ME UNCOMFORTABLE! ME, THE PERSON WHO ISN'T IN ANY WAY INVOLVED!! Meh. I mean, some points there I think cross the line into abusive but if he's happy, can't do much about it
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Mind you, some radfems are a bit like this too and shame women who are into BDSM. People seem to think that's like, the same group of feminists arguing with themselves but it is a big split.
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