I can’t say that’s *wrong*. Maybe your model was too optimistic. (Mine was, once.) But what if we just said that it’s - humbling? It takes a lot of weight off us, too (once we realize perfection isn’t an option, rough edges are here to stay)https://twitter.com/Locus_of_Ctrl/status/1048080114972413952 …
That means that you could be a lovely, unique human being but your success or failure, even your virtue, will depend on who your people are, who you trust *That’s how the cosmos works*. There is no third way; your options are copying good models or pretending that you aren’t