occurring to me that the core of narcissist manipulation is that what they're saying doesn't match what they really feel or is real
and you're pressured to go along like nothings wrong. that's what fucks you up so much
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oh fuck wow
no never seen this. this captures a lot of this really well. mine would emphatically say stuff like "only if you want to" when all of the subtle pressures of the deeper context went in the direction of "do it or else"
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i haven't looked into his stuff much but the excerpts i have seen are pretty good. rd laing was a real one
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Gonna start off with some R.D. Laing, saying some real shit about double binds in our default cultural context:
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