wait wait wait you mean to tell me there are people running around dating and marrying each other *without* feeling limerence??????
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i'm uh. not sure i understood this before
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can someone describe to me what it's like to be romantically attracted to someone without feeling limerence because i literally don't think i know
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It was only when I stopped conceiving of love/romance as some kind of random, benign mental infection and approached it with deliberateness/agency that I was freed from the recurring affliction of limerence and found my wife/mother of my children
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