wait wait wait you mean to tell me there are people running around dating and marrying each other *without* feeling limerence??????
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can someone describe to me what it's like to be romantically attracted to someone without feeling limerence because i literally don't think i know
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Aw you still fall in love you just have healthy internal boundaries around the dark and weird stuff
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limerence comes and goes. it'll last like 3-12 months, then you're just left with "they're good, i like being around them, they're really pretty, I want to build a life together"
you can re-crush on someone in the right conditions
(Tho it always starts with limerence for me)
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> Limerence is a state of mind which results from romantic or non-romantic feelings for another person and typically includes obsessive thoughts and fantasies as well as a desire to form or maintain a relationship with the object of love and to have one's feelings reciprocate
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For others' reference cuz I didn't know the word
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oh, i wanna read it!!!! where do i find it?
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