trying out this exciting sexy new life hack where when someone asks me to make a decision, instead of feeling like i have to answer yes or no (which makes me procrastinate on it forever) i tell them where i am currently in the decision-making process
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same energy but interpersonally
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wow fucking hell guys did you know that when you're trying to get through your todo list you can just write down all of your questions and feelings about a todo item and *this constitutes progress on the todo item*
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It’s like when I realized I can just be honest with people!! A revelation!! I can be vulnerable and not pretend like I have it all figured out
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Sounds effective.
My go-to has been..
If im pressed for a decision, I terminate the relationship.
My partners can take as long as they want to come to their best decision, and i expect the same from them.
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Sounds avoidant, sry.
Has this been super successful?
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inspired me to tweet this related thought I've had for awhile
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I've found that in most cases it's possible to be honest & open with people without being too vulnerable
eg having a tough time & a stranger or acquaintance asks how I'm doing:
"kinda rough. I don't really want to go into it, but life is a lot sometimes, you know?"
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