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· May 20

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serious question: how do I let my daughter follow her wildest curiosities without making her believe that she's special?

i don't think it'll be particularly helpful to try to get her to stop feeling superior or special or w/e. if you're giving her opportunities other kids don't have she's gonna notice the difference eventually. let her notice it and feel however she's gonna feel about it

i was raised with a lot of memes that caused me to heavily downplay my own intelligence most of the time b/c i didn't want other people to feel bad and it may have improved my social life for awhile but it also made me annoyingly tangled up about my intelligence

like in many ways i felt like i wasn't allowed to notice or care about or be proud of my intelligence and that was actually a subtle annoying barrier to a lot of things and had weird effects on my self-image. not a single person sat me down and was straight with me about this

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lol for me it was exactly the opposite, I had to prove that I was super intelligent and winning everything at every step, and then when I went to college and realized I’m nowhere near the top half of my class my whole world fell apart

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welp

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Tommy Siegel

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· Sep 17, 2019

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yup we’re all gonna mess it up, but we can at least try to own it

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