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having my mind blown by this rn. if i suppress my sense of my own gender when talking to a woman then i'm not located in gender space so she can't see me in gender space and if i suppress my sense of *her* gender i can't see *her* in gender space either
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gender is where you're standing, orientation is where you're facing
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haha when i learned how to talk to the rationalists i degenerated myself and everybody i was talking to because minds are genderless i wonder if that had any downstream effects at all on my ability to flirt
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Replying to @nuanceexists and @QiaochuYuan
flirtation of the body v mind! often entwined but not always. successful embodied flirting involves attuning to the other person and then making their body do something successful disembodied/mental flirting often looks like making the other person's mind do something
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