poll: should i have told the cute girl at the gym just now that i liked her smile | what's your ~gender
- yes | ~m30.8%
- yes | ~f7.3%
- no | ~m51.9%
- no | ~f10%
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I totally love it when people I don’t know compliment me in the gym. I can remember interesting conversations I’ve had with strangers, going back years, started by them approaching me with a compliment.
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Thinking about this: confidence has a lot to do with how it works. I exude confidence, so people, guys particularly, instinctively understand that I won’t take offense when they compliment me.
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And I compliment liberally, any gender. An open, confident smile and a compliment, in passing, with no obvious intent to stop and follow up, is…well, complimentary.
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If someone looks closed and vulnerable or preoccupied then I would not intrude on their space. But otherwise… why not give someone some happy vibes with an honest connection?
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yeah she didn't look closed, seemed happy and relaxed, part of what made her smile so pleasant i think 🙂 thanks for the response!