where she was being held by another participant and she burst into sobs because she had never felt such care, acceptance, and nonjudgement. She mentioned a neglectful childhood. Very touching.
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filled with kind people. Even just to watch. We're animals, & I think we were meant to learn about sex by observing others. 1 highlight: head on this woman's lap, joking with the couple who were fucking hard about 20 inches away. It's nice when sex is destigmatized & silly. End🧵
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yes! honestly it's really fucked up that i've never seen any of my friends have sex
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Yes! We usually learn about sex from cultural fables or from watching a bunch of staged strangers who don't share our values and character, & who arent even expressing true physical reactions to touch. I love that my friendships are that open. Feels really normal to me.
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“who arent even expressing true physical reactions to touch” feels super key to me in particular - lot of weird fake training data in porn 😅
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I know it really sucks. Our brains are not well equipped to deal with a bunch of blatant lies broadcast at us regarding our deepest desire and pleasure. It's disorienting. Even on a neurological & subconscious level the brain is acclimating to what it sees as if it's reality
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now i’m wondering if it would be healing on some level to watch monkeys have sex 🧐
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Hahaha bonobo sex maybe. Supposedly theyre pretty liberal about it. Our closest relative, an inspiration
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okay nice this was actually helpful to watch. they have sex face to face a lot which is pretty cute
m.youtube.com/watch?v=ShSs9V
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Wow that was awesome! I didn't know if I was ready to see apes having sex, but the commentary was wonderful and their interactions are fascinating. Very cute, but its surprising how quick they are. They use it as a comfort method, so maybe they dont peak orgasm like we do
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“usually no orgasm” apparently. sounds more fun to me that way tbh
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Wow, so the males are not ejaculating most of the time either I guess. I think I prefer our way. As a woman I like the long sessions & clearly the female human has more potential for pleasure than a bonobo, though if you factor frequency, bonobos prolly live more pleasured anyway
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