Do you like being pursued romantically? Which gender more accurately reflects who you are at the moment?
- yes/m67.8%
- yes/f18%
- no/m10.4%
- no/f3.7%
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i honestly don’t know. theoretically i think i would like it but i’ve literally never been romantically pursued by someone that i was interested in (that i know of 😅)
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YEAH that's the thing right
And I didn't specify in the poll- there are people answering yes just because they think it's fun to be pursued
But of the people you weren't interested in- did any of it have to do with the very fact of pursuit, do you think?
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one of them creeped me out slightly by not respecting my personal space but i wouldn't have been interested either way. i just don't think the women i'm interested in are the sort of women who pursue
(although i easily could have missed what to them felt like obvious passes)
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oh, wait, one exception - you could say the woman i lost my virginity to pursued me but it was very straightforward. we matched at a blind dating thing and then later we were in the same room and she waved me over and said she'd wanted to talk to me. that was amazing