i honestly don’t know. theoretically i think i would like it but i’ve literally never been romantically pursued by someone that i was interested in (that i know of 😅)
YEAH that's the thing right
And I didn't specify in the poll- there are people answering yes just because they think it's fun to be pursued
But of the people you weren't interested in- did any of it have to do with the very fact of pursuit, do you think?
one of them creeped me out slightly by not respecting my personal space but i wouldn't have been interested either way. i just don't think the women i'm interested in are the sort of women who pursue
(although i easily could have missed what to them felt like obvious passes)