~straight ~women, do you initiate relationships/tell men you have feelings for them?
- no10.4%
- yes15.4%
- (N/A)56.7%
- (other, pls comment)17.5%
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In straight relationships, yeah. Feedback is they assume I’m insane. Can’t stop/won’t stop myself though
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explained it to me, help Ken
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my understanding of the uh "traditional" pov here is that it's weird / confusing / a sign of desperation. like "traditionally" women ought to just be attractive and wait for men to approach them (not intending a judgment about whether this is good or bad for the moment)
yeah I understand that intellectually I'm just extremely confused by it 😩
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well yeah and i think the experience on the other end is confusion too! like "wtf is this woman doing, who is she to be doing this"
sort of a gender-specific ask vs. guess vs. tell culture thing
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