how the hell does one vibe over text??
pretty sure I lose out on a ton of friendship by being weird/stilted/avoidant
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i've adjusted back and forth my use of emoji for awhile, went through a period where i used a ton and less now. it really just comes down to being honest for me; if i feel excited i try to communicate that one way or another, if i don't feel excited i don't, etc.
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text is kinda unique in that you actually have a much bigger opportunity to pause and try to edit and filter yourself than you do in spoken conversation, which imo you should not take 😛
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the messages I take 20 minutes to word and re-word usually come out by far the worst lmao
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exactly. it's like how your best essays are the ones you dashed off without thinking about them. texts are a time to be smooth brained