some tetris effect nonsense is happening where i keep trying to parse every person around me as if they were a vibecamper
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spent a *lot* of time trying to figure out who was sitting in that group of vibecampers 100 feet away
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it is kinda nice to defaulting to assuming that literally every human being within eyesight is someone i could walk up to, introduce myself to, and make friends with
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I noticed this had had a big effect on me the day I emerged from the building: I saw a stranger and I didn't pre-reflexively parse them as "potential enemy" but, rather, as "potential friend". This was new, baffling, disorienting, but so good.
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wow this is a whole thing huh
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Strange after-effect of @tpotvibecamp is my default assumption of people’s well-intentioned-ness going up by some amount: more smiling at or saying hi to strangers, more sharing on personal matters unprompted, etc
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Part of me wonders if this isn’t entirely a good thing, like sometimes it’s helpful to default to defensive/skeptical mode, there are bad actors out there
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the thing is that defensiveness / skepticism so easily becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy; people can tell when you distrust them and it makes them distrust you too and then etc etc. someone has to lay the guns down first
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