I didn't notice any of that dynamic here? Not sure if I'm just blind to it, but...
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Yeah, this is a good argument, probably accurate. (Well put, too.)
Still, I was really struck by how much, everyone I had a conversation with, I was happy they were there. Not making a gesture here, this was literally the case.
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Making friends means some people are less so you friends and so people who oppose your friends are more easily categorized as enemies to you as well. It seems both undesirable and inevitable, but the benefit is deeper, more meaningful interactions within familiar groups.
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I had to untrain this pattern at the airport a little- after two days of this, my brain had shifted to a place where it thought the random guy on the plane next to me was presumably...
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see, I can't think of any way to say this that doesn't sound mean to Random Guys On Planes, which is maybe a point in support of the OP? Still seems worth noting that this situation didn't kick in until after I'd left.
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("A wonderful person I'd be glad to know" was the phrase that came to mind. And yeah, maybe if you're enlightened or st everyone you meet is that to you, but *I* am not enlightened and somehow everyone at Vibecamp was that to me, which was a new experience.)
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yeah i agree with all of this! might be some drama if cliques solidify more but 🤷 i didnt really see any of this, at least nothing beyond what happens on twitter
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but maybe this is bc i dont do gcs 👀
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Given that, a question of curiosity: did you avoid or seek to cabin with only mutuals/people you know and regard well?
I'm wondering how your cabin experience matches with mine relative to the whole 'to clique or not to clique?'
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i didnt know cabin assignments were happening and asked if i wanted to be in his cabin and i was like "OBVIOUSLY" and then i found out who else was in the cabin (turned out organized most of this!!) and was like
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yeah my whole idea was to make a clown cabin with you and maybe and Jeff, and then QC also asked maybe so we combined. I ultimately didn't really feel like I fit in very well but it was certainly an interesting set of people, apologies if I made too much noise :)
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aw sorry to hear that. it was a little difficult to get time together as a cabin but i'm glad we made it more or less work!
tbh I think it was the camp setting, I've been having a blast the week before and now after camp but when I was there I just got flashbacks when I was a kid and spent most of the time by myself crying lol
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aww ❤️
i was wondering if there was going to be some kind of emotional first aid thing... hmm... maybe for next year
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