if i see a girl and think “i hope someone fucks you so good it opens up your shoulders and releases all that tension in your neck” is that metta
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Only if she wants that (or subscribes to that frame)! For example, I suspect someone saying “I hope his parents give him 100k” probably wouldn’t register as metta for you.
Wishing people something they don’t want is not metta, even if it feels good to *you*
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Signed, someone who wouldn’t want that metta. It crosses wires that I prefer left uncrossed. Nonsexual metta only towards me please, thanks 🙏
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argh, and even worse - why??!!! does "make love" mean "literal sex"?
there are so many other ways to make love where it didn't exist before!!!!
cooking nourishing meals, gathering friends, breathing the universal background love flow that exists *all the time* - & on and on 
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oh, and facebook says it’s your birthday, happy birthday!