every time someone subtweets honestly a part of me is like "are they talking about me??? are they talking about someone i like???" even if the behavior they're describing is unrecognizable and it stresses me out
because i mean 1) i'm just kind of an anxious motherfucker overall but also 2) the whole point of blind spots is you can't see them and you need other people to point them out for you so who knows what i might or might not need calling out on???
i kinda wish people would just not subtweet, overall, and if they have something to say i wish people would just name names. clarifies the situation enormously, some people will really appreciate the feedback, others, welp, can't be helped sometimes
alright in any case taal DMed me two examples and they're both people i have muted and who i felt like never really understood what we're trying to do here so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I've always had an impression of innocence wrt your own particular brand of self-involvement. He seemed to be describing something more malignant than simply being unaware of others as people, and perhaps with a bit of an overgroup/undergroup rather than an ingroup/outgroup tone.
Are people trying to do something here that I am accidentally/inadvertently/naturally doing?
Am I unintendedly a something ?
Or am I the prey?
I am edible enough, so it's all good if the last