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i have a pet theory that conversations with other people - including but not limited to therapy or coaching sessions - should happen in multiples of 90 minutes. 60 minutes is not enough time and i think it's a shame that we settled on 60 as the default chunk
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when i let conversations - again including but not limited to coaching sessions - reach a natural end that end is often after either 90 or 180 minutes (not always, for sure) 90 minutes is about the length of a REM cycle, and also about the length of a movie πŸ€”
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my coaching sessions started going noticeably better once i insisted on having them be 90 minutes long instead of 60. 60 almost always felt rushed but 90 feels spacious. there's enough time for like a whole emotional arc to play out (length of a movie!)
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also i tried 120 minutes a few times but the sessions would often naturally end early. would be very curious to hear other people experiment here and report back
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Fascinating! In Ancient China they used to use ζ™‚ (~120 mins) + 刻 (~100th of a day ~= 14 min) Only know about ζ™‚ from watching Justice Pao growing up since the plot tension was always about when they were gonna chop someone's head off & when they suddenly discover new evidence
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