at some point when i was an impressionable young lad i heard some shit like “men think about sex every 7 seconds” and whether this was intended or not i was left with the impression that this was bad, so i decided to never think about sex
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anyway that was dumb. i’m gonna think about sex every 7 seconds now as a bit
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warming up to the term “neurotic feminism” as a description of the way i turned presumably well-intentioned feminist memes into my own personal mental, emotional, and somatic prison growing up
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me and a lot of people i know sure do love ruining our own lives by making up rules about what we aren't allowed to do and then following them straight into a ditch
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i also had another rule where i couldn’t sexually fantasize about anyone i knew, which included my girlfriends 😅 it sounds silly but i have had to slowly work my way towards feeling allowed to have sexual fantasies, over the course of the last 5 or so years
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I promised myself when I was 13 that I would never sexually fantasize about anyone I knew, and I kept that promise for 13 years. In relationships I tried to be a rom-com lead - charming words, big gestures, declarations of love, etc. It sort of worked, but not for long.
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I wonder a lot if my prior religious upbringing ended up foot-gunning a lot of perfectly healthy thought patterns
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“average man think about sex every 7 seconds" factoid actualy just statistical error. average person thinks about sex 0 times per minute. Hornt up Georg, who lives in cave & thinks about sex over 10,000 times each day, is an outlier adn should not have been counted
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He'd have to think about sex a lot more than that to bring the average up
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