if there's one thing i've learned from writing about her childcare experiences it's that i really owe it to my hypothetical future wife to repair my relationship with my parents so they can be roped into childcare for our hypothetical future kids
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yes omg
for me this is like one of the biggest future upsides of the fact that I've healed enough I don't blow up whenever my parents are around any more
we now have normal good convos about future pregnancy care and childcare plans 💕💕
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we're not emotionally deeply close but we are now solid enough to be practically and life-planning-ly close and that's maybe enough for now, for what is needed for life to be good
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