that was annoying enough when i was just using it to impress people, but when i started turning schoolbrain on *myself*? that's when "akrasia" hit - my thoughts were full of "convincing" arguments about why i should do X or shouldn't do Y, meanwhile my body was like "nah tho"
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gradually i came to suspect that something was very wrong about how i was orienting towards "beliefs." i got into all the feelings stuff (which rats introduced me to!) in part to explore my "actual" "beliefs," which it turns out were and are often insane
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i don't mean this in a derogatory way, i mean they were held by young child parts disconnected from my adult reality. stuff like "if i make a woman angry at me i'll literally die," that sort of thing. "obviously false" but nevertheless running my life from the shadows
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once i had learned enough about feelings stuff to get a sense of where my "actual" "beliefs" were - the ones connected to my body, to motivation, to desire, to action - whatever the rats were doing instead began to seem... like not what *i* needed, anyway
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(worth mentioning here that, to their credit, many fine upstanding rationalists seemed and seem quite capable of coming to novel conclusions on the basis of systematic rational thought and then acting on them. the pandemic has really let some of them shine)
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i went through a long period of insisting at every rationality workshop that we focus on feelings stuff almost exclusively. i probably annoyed a bunch of people but in retrospect i pretty much nailed what *i* needed, at least; hopefully it helped a few other people too
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i don't like any particular developmental framework enough to use it here but you could say i gradually realized many important parts of me were developmentally stunted and i needed to go back and actually develop them instead of pretending to be more mature than i was
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i have sort of developed a reputation on here for being honest about my experiences and it's worth saying about myself that this is in part a deliberate effort to undo a lifetime of insincerity coming from being deeply out of touch with myself
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but hey, things are looking up. recently i realized i'd been lying to myself and an ex about something really important about how we got together and why we broke up. it felt like a huge relief to admit it to myself (and her!). it only took 5 years π
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ah, also i apparently already tweeted about "schoolbrain"
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one of the worst things rationality did to me (or, you could say, i did to myself using rationality, idk) was teach me to use the part of my mind i had developed to do homework to run my entire life
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one day i hope to feel more or less done processing my relationship to rationality and the rationalists but it is not today i guess
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