i have this problem where i basically cannot sleep in a new environment especially if there's another person there
and it seems like i will be doing a lot of this
how function,,, how ?? help
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hard same lol. for me i think it's something like bottled up anxiety and i am gonna either unbottle it or attempt to soothe myself
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o nooo
yeah i think anxiety is involved but it feels disconnected somehow, lately i've been *more comfortable* in my bf's presence than i am anywhere else ever (extremely unusual) but when it comes to sleeping?? just,, no
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i think it could be any emotion honestly. once i couldn't sleep at all for an entire night and i think it was guilt / shame but it was really really inaccessible so idk
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sleep is one of those weirdly "life-complete" things ime where like anything at all that's off and weird about your life could screw it up. emotional stuff, biological stuff, all sorts of things
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it might even be positive emotions! like maybe you feel so good and happy but some of *that's* bottled up which also makes it hard to sleep ime
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oh god yeah maybe that's it!! FUCK how to fix
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have you tried squeeing and gushing very loudly to a friend
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i feel like i've been doing this continually at anyone who will stand still long enough tbh but maybe I SHOULD DO EVEN MORE
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the way i sees it, if ya still wants to then ya ain't done 😅 i like getting really really overdramatic with it, possibly by myself if necessary. just in the most over-the-top terms possible until i feel like i've actually nailed the feeling