serious question for men who’ve been in relationships with women, not gonna elaborate on context for the time being but might later: how do you hold women responsible / accountable for ways they’ve hurt you? (in your own sensemaking at least, not necessarily confronting them)
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I treat them the same as men, with expectation of full accountability. I also treat relational aggression as seriously as physical.
Those w the "women are wonderful" bias are very surprised to find out they are being treated as an equal.
Mature ppl handle it fine.
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bless you sir i'm gonna pretend this was the only response