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one of the ideas that fucks me up the most is the possibility that people who strongly believe some psychological theory will sort of polarize everyone around them into acting in accordance with that theory
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i suppose insofar as this sort of thing happens the decent thing to do is to err on the side of believing psychological theories that attribute people a lot of agency and fundamental goodness
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coherence therapy calls this "symptom coherence" - taking the stance that every thing you do that drives you nuts makes deep sense once you get the underlying emotional reality that's driving it. it very cleanly articulates something i've been grasping at for years and years
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also relevant to questions like "why is everyone's psych book full of case studies of patients for whom that specific psych method works so perfectly" presumably there are multiple selection effects going on, and then perhaps more subtle influence stuff?
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well should check my ass here but it's something like getting an attractor loop running in your belly/wherever and various forms of subtle communication pulling people into an analogue of it if you watch Wild Wild Country and squint you can kinda see Osho doing it
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one thing i've noticed here that seems relevant is that the inventor of a therapy modality seems to be able to run a much stronger loop than their students, and correspondingly seems to affect their clients more strongly and in ways more consistent with the modality
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hmm yeah that definitely seems relevant. it's interesting b/c i wouldn't describe richard schwartz as particularly charismatic, not compared to like osho for example. but i am pretty sure he does believe very very strongly in IFS and that does come through
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Parts hypnotherapy in deeper trance is interesting because the client is basically in a waking dream. Parts are just dream figures. A mind organized into a story that you can interact with. Its cool to watch cause parts will be even weirder and more dreamlike than I see in IFS
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Richard Schwartz doing IFS is weird. A part pops up and he's like "could you ask that part to move to the side" and it just does. When I facilitate, I do a lot more of emphasizing with the part, checking its goal etc. before asking it to move, but somehow he can just skip a lot.
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Maybe this is just an indication of me doing unnecessary steps but I've also seen/had other experienced facilitators do IFS and it feels like their style is closer to mine.
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