the fact that the ratio of women who said Yes (33%) is soooo much lower than the ratio of men who said Yes (76%) is really blowing my mind right now
something has definitely shifted in society 😲
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if you're a dude and you have a lot of hormonal desire
and you're surrounded by people who are hurt by that desire from others
and you fear could be hurt by you even if you try your very absolute hardest and shove yourself into a tiny kernel prison trying not to
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yeah that gonna fuck you up
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+ the sense of what you are being unwanted by the world / yourself as a monster
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do you want to host a manliness event at vibecamp w me
not a guru teacher style thing but more participatory
/ what it's like to be a man / coming to terms with it
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that sounds dope let's talk about it! i have a few possible ideas from similar events i've seen
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im thinking like
after many years of effort working through my stuff
i have come from the bottom of the deepest cave to another slightly less deep cave
and just opening a space for ppl to talk about this and facilitating it properly could be really hugely helpful
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agreed, space to talk by itself would already be really good 🙏
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fuckkk this sounds awesome. gotta try and get my vibecamp shit in order. this is the discourse i so badly want to see and participate in and had no clue i needed (i have every clue i needed this)
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you're def not alone man 🙏