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some people adopt a “no pain no gain” attitude towards meditation that makes it about forcing themselves to do uncomfortable things. when you do that you enshrine a worldview in which force is king, where the parts of you that can best dominate the others decide what to do
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it does not have to be like that. with a sufficiently broad conception of meditation you can aim to apply almost no force in your practice. meditation is not homework and it is not like training a muscle. as mark says, “meditation is concrete problem-solving”
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some people meditate out of self-hatred, because on some level it can become a socially acceptable form of suicide. it doesn’t have to be like that either. you can meditate your way towards becoming more alive than ever, not less
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