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@sunofdopamine
i start off instantly attracted to women i consider physically attractive, but i lose this for a lot of people over time depending on their personality even if i like them as friends. does this describe you?
  • i am a man and yes
    52.6%
  • i am a man and no
    25.3%
  • i am a woman and yes
    7.5%
  • i am a woman and
    14.7%
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QC (in Berlin 7/29-???)
@QiaochuYuan
one confusion i've had trying to talk and think about this is what exactly "attraction" means. like eg i am basically incapable of meeting a woman and instantly getting hard, or even instantly feeling blood rush to my genitals
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QC (in Berlin 7/29-???)
@QiaochuYuan
for me i have to establish some baseline rapport and emotional safety first. but i've asked guys what they mean by being attracted to a woman they've just met and they say more like fascination, feeling drawn to, wanting to talk to
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