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hi, actually let's do this: reply or QT with a story about a time someone flirted with you and you liked it and it was actually good and happy, the more detailed the better 🤓
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i saw and read a lot about men being creepy growing up (and still do) and the lesson i internalized was to just never hit on women ever. it didn't help that i never saw what *good* flirting was supposed to look like, except in TV / movies and that had its own problems (3/n)
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oh i have a good story but you’ll have to wait for the morning 😏
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hmm maybe i’ll bundle two together since they’re thematically close but very different. exciting, i love story time. okay see you in the am (clue: ✈️)
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-- 1 -- 9h transatlantic flight, we're holding the plane for a guy who ends up sitting next to me. he's kind of grubby. i see him scope me out, and i signal "meh plz leave me alone" so he does. above an hour before we arrive i play a game of chess on the screen...
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and then he starts playing a game on his. i watch a bit and we start talking about it. we must have found things to talk ab, bc when we arrive in oslo for our layover to paris we agree to check out the city. we find an art museum to wander around in, share...
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notebooks and thoughts on art. we're communicating in half english half french (my fr is terrible now, don't try w me i'll flounder) and having a good time. he invites me to his city during my trip...
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it didn't feel in-the-moment flirty, but by the end we both had curiosity ab the other person that if we'd ended up in the same city smthg would have happened. he kept mechanical diagrams of his inventions in a notebook, so naturally i was 🥵. do his drawings count as flirting?
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being calm and curious, it turns out, is a pretty solid plan. if i reflect on the dude's hand in all this, i'm attracted to when someone is calm and treating me like a person, and it feels like it's my choice whether to engage.
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