i think i’m starting to get what people mean when they say something is “not easy but it is simple.” that confused me for so long. but i think they mean that it’s a simple *target to specify*, even if there may be many obstacles to reaching it
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e.g. i’ve mentioned going to masculinity workshops that taught a bunch of vulnerability stuff around dating, pretty much their conception of the target can be boiled down to “tell the truth and have fun” which is a simple target even if many anxieties get in the way
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it’s a little too early to really say but tentatively it feels like i’ve chilled out on a bunch of related things in the background. everything feels a little simpler. stuff i used to be super worried about is a little less of a big deal. feels nice. hope it persists
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🙏🤞me too!
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