there are very much people who are going to work the opposite way, but speaking just for myself, i'm a little sad when people take my saying no to invitations too seriously
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the people in my social circles tend to be really big on respecting each other's stated preferences and, particularly since we are all various levels of ADHD and fucked up, respecting each other's "no i would rather not do this thing / go to this event rn"
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there are things i like about this - i like that we try not to *shame* people for having these preferences - but also like. i wanna be drawn out of my shell sometimes. when i'm withdrawing and saying no to everything i want someone to barge in anyway
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like i have a lot of preferences actually and some of them happen to be much harder to verbalize when i'm feeling really bad and, although it feels a little embarrassing to be this explicit about it, i want someone to read my mind about those
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sometimes it's too fuzzy and sometimes i'm just too embarrassed 🥺
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it do be like that sometimes huh
i mean i've been trying to deal with this by just getting increasingly good at dragging myself out of depression and that does eventually work but it's kind of lonely
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hmm can you say more about what that would look like?
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