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i really got conceptual traction on this from a blog post that basically identified “ego” in the western-buddhist sense with IFS parts, especially protectors hence “losing ego” becomes about helping these parts relax, rather than fighting a part of yourself that is bad
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Almost half of all people have a vicious inner critic, an internal monologue that ruthlessly judges and shames them, everyday. These ppl should disregard any spiritual advice about losing their ego. They need to be BUILDING ego, strengthening it, so it can stand up for itself.
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parts don’t wanna dissolve until they know you’re going to take care of everything they care about. holding the intent to dissolve them can scare them about this. they don’t want to be subject to a part that wants the other ones to go away because dealing with them is too hard