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ah, reality warpers. Yeah this shit runs deep
And if you get away from it for a while it can feel like everyone is doing this -- leading you to suspect everyone -- a very alienating feeling. To some degree it's true, so there's enough to catch on
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I certainly know I can have that effect on people -- and there's an entire framework for figuring out how to not do that in a way that harms others (stay away from some people; examine my feelings on X instead of intent; pause or break to give room to consider; don't Want a lot)
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Makes me want to write a guide on how to not hurt people with your charisma (something I have not always succeeded in, but seemingly learned to do more so over the years)
A large part is not being in survival mode yourself
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