forget schools burn hospitals to the ground jesus
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"wEsTeRn MeDiCiNe" you know what medicine everybody needs? fucking sleep
this is the most insane shit
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did you know that in the early 1900s hospitals used to separate babies from their parents immediately after birth and not held
then they started dying
and nobody knew why until someone suggested they might be dying of loneliness
aaronsw.com/weblog/hospita
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one of my sisters was hospitalized for failure to thrive (bio mom neglected her) :(
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she has never been okay
weirdest attachment stuff I've ever seen
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i can’t even imagine. have you read about the romanian orphans?
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yep
3/5 of my adopted siblings have reactive attachment issues in the same manner
absolute nightmare, people within the range of normal attachment are not equipped to parent these kids effectively at all
for some reason I've always thought would do well with them
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the behaviors are so weird and crazymaking for the caretakers
not to blame the kids, of course, it makes sense that this would be adaptive for them
but it *feels* like you're being masterfully and antagonistically manipulated into going insane
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obviously there are privacy issues but i’d love to see you write about this in way more detail sometime. thinly veiled fictionalized book maybe?
I'll probably write more and share privately in other channels, yeah
every so often it feels correct to go over what it was like to live with kids who had those issues and be like "man that was weird and insane!"
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might also interview my mom at some point
could be interesting to get her perspective and I think she might benefit from talking about it
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