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i bet sob squad + trauma twitter are seeing this like "wait did you.... did you miss this memo?" i'm only *just* starting to grasp that people can be traumatized by things that don't traumatize most people
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yeah for sure, “being traumatic” is not an inherent property of a type of experience! it’s about what is too fast, too confusing, too hard to digest for a given person, and that can vary dramatically
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i grew up in house full of combat vets, often men who were standing next to each other when injured. one could be deeply long-term traumatized and the other relatively fine
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i felt like i need permission from them, when i first started to consider that I was traumatized (my father would be like dude you have all your legs your not traumatized) they all gave it to me. told me it wasn't a contest, all pain is real
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they fuckn rock so hard. the dude im thinking of rn has a kickass eyepatch he got cuz he kept running back into a building that was on fire and full of explosives to save his friends. he couldn't even tell his story when I first met him now he's a fucking healer himself
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