didnt occur to me to put a "yep and it was great" vs "yep and it's insane" options bc as a limerence-prone person it feels very much both, but on balance insane and miserable and seems to preclude having healthy relationships
but i may be wrong
same tbh but also that part goes mercifully dormant when i'm in a relationship 😂 it does feel like a bit of a void though? like where is the excess obsessive energy meant to go? why isnt there a healthy way to idolize another person?