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something like "at the dinner table i brought up my belief that you shouldn't date a woman in her 20s looking to get married for longer than 3 years without marrying her or breaking up and it caused world war III"
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ok, sure, but have you married any of them, because that feeling often seems to fade at 6 months in my experience. I took almost 3 years with my wife, but she had to mold me into the man I am today, first, which took at least the first 2 years.
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Yeah the moulding is important, husband and I took 4 years but it would have been a "no" for at least one of us before that point We also met when we were 18 so ymmv though
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