when you don’t choose who to marry you can’t choose someone who mistreats you in exactly the way that feels deeply familiar and right to you and which you secretly feel you deserve https://twitter.com/brawlyparton/status/1381238792590389248…
goddamn, that's like the thing in The Secret of Our Success, where divination rituals for hunting worked because they introduced an element of randomness (the hunters didn't just move in predictable ways that the animals could avoid)...