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reading this made me want to murder somebody. absolutely do not fucking talk to someone like this when they're telling you how angry they are that people don't give a shit about the particular way in which they're suffering twitter.com/temeton_blue/s

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QC (in Berlin 7/29-???)

@QiaochuYuan

Apr 7, 2021

would you tell a woman talking about how scared she is of men assaulting her to stop worrying so much and be less neurotic about it? absolutely no you would fucking not

QC (in Berlin 7/29-???)

@QiaochuYuan

Apr 7, 2021

to be clear, this is not a disagreement with the content, it's with his smarmy fucking tone, fuck you, you obviously don't give a shit about me, don't fucking pretend like any of what you're saying is for *me*

QC (in Berlin 7/29-???)

@QiaochuYuan

the "love" in particular... my dude... if what "love" means to you is invalidating the thing i explicitly said i was angry about not being validated, i don't fucking want your love. get your love the fuck away from me. don't fucking use the word "love" like that

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QC (in Berlin 7/29-???)

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Apr 8, 2021

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visa gets it

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SF (Aug 2-14)

@visakanv

· Apr 8, 2021

protip: if you see someone who seems to be having an antsy, edgy, anxious time, and you want to help them relax, saying "stop being so tense, be yourself, relax, chill" is IME consistently one of the worst things you can do. I've seen this play out hundreds of times, always bad

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The words “vacuously empathetic” come to mind… Not that I *never* stand back to hazily admire my own handiwork at the inconsiderate bullshit I just dumped on the conversation, but, y’know. Prefer to avoid it. Same with creepin.