it’s fucked up that ~99% of the stories i read about men hitting on women are stories of male celebrities getting metoo’d. idk where i’m supposed to be getting role models and positive examples from. any women wanna tell us about a time a man hit on them and they liked it?
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how can i tell if a woman is attracted to me *before* hitting on them 😫
also how can i tell if i’m being sufficiently non-threatening 😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫
(online, i kiinda think i can do this irl)
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there's no silver bullet, you gotta be willing to take rejection and it might be brutal sometimes
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this is why PUAs tell newbies to fail fast and repeatedly, rack up attempts and failures. If you aren't willing to fail you won't take the risks necessary to win
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Indeed IME if you talk casually to 100 people, even without explicitly hitting on them, you’ll notice a range of responses, and you’ll start to notice what chemistry looks and feels like. Then it’s just a matter of escalating chemistry when you have it
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Caveat is that you have to be paying attention, and open to learning etc, which is much harder to do if you’re operating in some kind of fear/trauma mode. But you can watch kids doing this in playgrounds. Receive &return energy, it starts at the level of the glance, body language
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If you can do good replies on Twitter you basically have the framework of a skillset that works. It’s about good reply game irl with vibes
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But all of the fun in life - play, conversation, flirting, sex - is what you do when you’re playing *with* the rules. But that doesn’t mean you *break* the rules. You tease around them. While paying close attention. That’s the fun!! Oh my god. People don’t know how to have fun
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Replying to @QiaochuYuan and @codeic
what a lot of straight guys don't get (IMO likely more because of trauma / bullying etc) is that attraction and flirting isn't an on-off switch. Sure, people might generally be more or less interested for a start, but really we're all flirting all the time, just to different degs
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