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QC (in Berlin 7/29-???)
@QiaochuYuan
you don't get to tell me to stop caring about whether i creep women out. it fucking *matters* to me. i *don't wanna fucking do it*. i am *not alone*. i have had a *lot* of private conversations with other men about this. men are *torn up* about it and they *can't talk about it*
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hyper(bolic) disco(unting) girl
@hyperdiscogirl
hmmm.... I guess I didn't read VI's tweet as implying it's bad to *care* about not creeping people out... but more about how that worry manifests in some ppl as behavior that is a bad vibe/failure to vibe it's a genuinely very hard issue in that it's self-defeating in some ways
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Cow Tongue
@cowtung
One of the creepiest things is a person worried about creeping others out. Took me a looong time to figure this out. The least creepy way to be is just to get interested in whatever you're talking about with someone. Presumption of non-creepiness sounds arrogant, but it isn't.
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🌜 Normiemon 🌛
@temeton_blue
what this guy says just be yourself, relax i'm saying this as one of the most naturally stressed out mf in the world You're allowed to not want to creep out girls, nobody sane of mind wants that, it's normal - but don't go paranoid over it, it's ironically self-defeating
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