it’s fucked up that ~99% of the stories i read about men hitting on women are stories of male celebrities getting metoo’d. idk where i’m supposed to be getting role models and positive examples from. any women wanna tell us about a time a man hit on them and they liked it?
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My old shipmate was Sicilian & would hit on me constantly as a matter of honour. We did 12-4am shift for months no drama. I loved it—he had absolutely no self-esteem on the line, so it felt free & easy. Male insecurity feels eugh. But women are afraid of own inability to say no.
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i appreciate you emphasizing "no self-esteem on the line" that feels key to me too!