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you don't get to tell me to stop caring about whether i creep women out. it fucking *matters* to me. i *don't wanna fucking do it*. i am *not alone*. i have had a *lot* of private conversations with other men about this. men are *torn up* about it and they *can't talk about it*
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hmmm.... I guess I didn't read VI's tweet as implying it's bad to *care* about not creeping people out... but more about how that worry manifests in some ppl as behavior that is a bad vibe/failure to vibe it's a genuinely very hard issue in that it's self-defeating in some ways
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