another sex question 4 u: when you feel sexually attracted to someone, is that feeling something you’re primarily experiencing in your genitals? chest? face? somewhere else? all over? doesn’t have a location? something else?
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the arc that goes from one hand to the other through my chest, which wants to embrace
and my cock, which wants to arrive home
(cock not necessarily hard! can be a deeper feeling, kind of under the surface)
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i’m glad you mentioned the thing about the cock not necessarily being hard bc that confused me for a long time
but now i think there is like a... “pre-hard”? warmth but not just warmth, something happens in my balls now
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the daoists have a fourfold model of erections rather than a binary one
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"The Taoists, however, noticed that there are actually four stages of erection—four attainments, as they called them. The first is firmness (also referred to as lengthening). The second is swelling. The third is hardness. The fourth is heat.
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It is much easier to avoid ejaculating when you can remain in the erect and hard third stage." - Mantak Chia, Multi-Orgasmic Man
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huh. is that in order? i feel like heat comes first for me at least sometimes
heat is like boiling, like you're on the verge of ejaculating
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ohoho i see yes