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poll: do you more feel like you have way more things to say than contexts where it makes sense to say them, or more like you struggle to come up with things to say in the contexts available to you?

more things to say
41.2%
struggle to find things
24.9%
both
31.5%
other (pls reply)
2.3%

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6:44 PM · Apr 4, 2021Twitter for iPad

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QC (in Berlin 7/29-???)

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Apr 4, 2021

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QC (in Berlin 7/29-???)

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· Apr 4, 2021

one of the funnier symptoms of anxious attachment from the attachment course is “talks too much and goes off on tangents a lot” and i’ve been thinking about that i think this is an attempt to process past stuff that doesn’t really get a chance to complete most of the time

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definitely both

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the latter is my central problem (perfectionism)

QC (in Berlin 7/29-???)

@QiaochuYuan

Apr 4, 2021

have you tried getting drunk

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Chose other. I'm comfortable in silence, but I regularly have something interesting and semi-relevant to say. Not self conscious so I don't mind if I come across as odd to some people, so long as I am accurate in my awareness of how I'm presenting myself.

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Sorta confused by people who don't answer "both" TBH

QC (in Berlin 7/29-???)

@QiaochuYuan

Apr 4, 2021

one might be a lot more salient than the other!

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I find that I say everything I want to say in the contexts I want to, but I find talking fun and would like a revolving collection of intesting conversation partners for the fun of it