also i feel like "sexuality horny" and "attention horny" are often unavoidably intertwined, given that a lot of sexuality is just a thinly veiled cope around peoples' desire for external validation
tru!
okay here’s the actual question i wanted to ask: when you describe a post as a “thirst trap,” is the *poster* the one being thirsty or is the *audience* the one being thirsty? or both?