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i was actually fucked up for a long time by the message that this was only a problem women had because it prevented me, for years, from even considering the possibility that this was a problem i was having (it was, 100%, very badly)
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attachment is the real gender, imo this is really an anxious attachment issue not a feminine issue per se
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there are four genders and they are secure attachment, anxious / preoccupied attachment, dismissive / avoidant attachment, and disorganized / fearful attachment
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hm that’s interesting
i think it would be safe to say it could be Both
it can be an anxious attachment issue as well as an affliction women who have sex with men suffer from
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does not need to be either or, i say this so as to not invalidate either ppl w anxious attachment issues or women like me who feel v seen by this who don’t have those attachment issues (i’m disorganized as u know)
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That makes sense!
(From Passionate Marriage)
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