Everytime a friend complains to me about how the guys they sleep with are terrible in bed the first thing that pops to mind is saying "Have sex 100 times" 💀💀
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i actually bet that would not work (for many people)!
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I have some thoughts about why it wouldn't work (people often don't think about what they're doing during sex, faulty feed back loops etc.) but what's your take?
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retraumatization. i think that stuff you said also. it's just uniquely touchy compared to most other stuff you could try to iterate on
Yeah it's definitely more challenging building a framework that you can iterate on and there are a number of mental blocks around the idea of sex and getting better at it that many people have trouble overcoming (or even realising that the blocks exist)
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